http://www.sharewisdom.org/relationships-and-dating/finding-a-soulmate/ Finding a Soulmate wisdom, knowledge, advice, tips and information shared by others. Share your wisdom with others. en Mon, 18 Sep 2006 15:49:47 EDT http://www.sharewisdom.org/relationships-and-dating/finding-a-soulmate/13.html I always used to think that finding a soul mate would be a really easy thing to do when you are ready for it. That was when I was younger and perhaps a little more idealistic. Don't get me wrong, for some people, it happens fairly quickly, even before they have started their first full time job. They end up marrying their high school sweetheart and live happily ever after. For others, that ideal partner appears in college or university and still for others, it occurs when they meet someone at work as they are climbing their career ladder. Yet, for a large number of people, the perfect "life long partner" does not seem to appear through any of these means. And this is why the world of internet dating has become increasingly popular. Before, internet dating was something you would not tell your friends you are doing. Now, it would almost be considered strange of you were single for more than a year and never have tried it. When people first try internet dating, they get quite excited and do a lot of things wrong. They read profiles of people quickly and don't pay attention to the potential things that they may not like about their potential date. The excitement of meeting an attractive, smart and interesting person is enough to make them ignore the little things that they usually don't like - for example smoking, drinking, etc. I fell into this trap at first but quickly found out a few important DO's or DO NOT's when internet dating and trying to find a soul ma http://www.sharewisdom.org/relationships-and-dating/finding-a-soulmate/13.html